Lately I have had quite a few people come to me and ask “what should I do now?” They want them to say saving your marriage is easy. But it isn’t. It isn’t the hardest thing either once you start on the right path. But anyways their relationship or even marriage is in trouble and they don’t know what the next step is. And that is ok to feel that way, and it is ok to ask for help.
I find most of the time, lately especially, the problem lies in the communication between the couple. People just aren’t communicating anymore. You should be able to talk with each other and let each other know how you are feeling. If you can’t even do that “simple” task, then it is time to go and get help. Whether it’s a program with an expert online, or if you go see a counselor near you. Doesn’t matter as long as you do something about it. Or the problem won’t go away, and it WILL be a downward cycle. Saving your marriage is something you may need help to do which is ok, but you must be willing to put in a lot of effort as well.